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Notifications

Choose what you're notified about, and find everything you've been sent.

Choose what you hear about

Open the ☰ menu, Global Settings, then NOTIFICATIONS.

  • Push notifications is the master switch. Turn it off and your phone stops buzzing for The Veil altogether.
  • Below it, one switch per kind:
  • Messages: new direct messages.
  • Likes & comments: activity on your posts.
  • New followers: follows and follow requests.
  • RSVPs: when guests respond.
  • Vendor inquiries: replies from vendors.
  • Checklist reminders: upcoming tasks and nudges.
  • Collaboration: co-planner change requests.
  • Blueprint activity: when people clone or save your blueprints.
  • Registry: gifts and contributions.

Changes save as you switch them. With the master switch off, the others are greyed out.

Notification switches in Settings
Notification switches in Settings

Everything you've been sent

The ☰ menu's Notifications (with a count of unread ones) opens your history, newest first, even for things you chose not to be buzzed about. A dot marks the ones you haven't seen.

  • The settings button at the top right jumps to your notification switches.
  • Clear all empties the history. It doesn't change what you're notified about.
Your notification history
Your notification history

Good to know

  • Notifications also depend on your phone's settings. If nothing arrives, check that notifications are allowed for The Veil in your phone's settings.
  • Emails from The Veil (like replies to a help request) come regardless of these switches.
  • On the wedding day, schedule updates reach your helpers and guests however you've set your own switches.

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Updated September 30, 2026